I just don't understand why some people are so immature that when you put comments on their blog that is just your opinion and not hurtful in any way, that they delete them. If you can't handle other's opinions, then why have a comment feature on your blog at all?
I have tried to be nice to some people over and over and over and yet they just seem to keep trying to be mean or hurtful back. I just don't understand mean, rude and immature behavior. It needs to stop.
Grow up people, be nice, be loving, be kind! It's so much easier to just be nice.
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If I don't want your rude comments on my blog, I don't have to keep them. It's my blog. You think you are just putting your opinion, but the way you come about sharing it, is rude. So I don't want to deal with it. Just like you have deleted comments I have put on here before. So by putting this post, you are being hypocritical. You know you have deleted comments of mine in the past. I will be surprised if you don't delete this one. I think you are the one who needs to get over it and grow up. Sorry, but I am DONE with you. Have been for a long time. Why do you think I won't add you on facebook? Because you don't really care about me, you just want to snoop in on my life and find an excuse to say something rude. I cannont handle it anymore, so for now, I stand up for myself and say leave me alone please.
I only deleted a comment once Gillian that you were out right rude and mean to me when you didn't know the entire story. And now you are being rude again.
By the way Gillian, I do love you and have tried to be nice to you. You have only in all the years I've known you put two comments on my blogs. One comment here today and one comment on my waist management blog a couple years back and that is the one I deleted that I spoke of in my last comment, so I've only deleted one comment you have ever written. If I have come across rude, I haven't ever meant to. On your blog I had written the following comment to your post about video taping yourself in the car while driving, I said something to the effect of: " That I didn't feel it was safe to video tape yourself while driving because you aren't paying 100% to the road. However I did like what you said during your Video blog"
I mentioned this only because I had just done a driving study at the University of Iowa and it was on Distractions while driving and simple things like changing the radio station and talking on the phone and talking to a video devise can cause accidents and I had caused several accidents during my two 5 minute studies so I know first hand how quick an accident can happen.
That's funny because I seriously almost wrote the same exact thing on Gillian's blog about the video post. I liked what you said, but Michelle is right. It's definitely not safe. You've got to be careful with that kind of stuff while driving. Gillian, I don't think you would have taken offense by me saying it on your blog, so I hope you wouldn't take offense by Michelle saying it either. I'm sure she meant it in a nice way. Seriously, the same thought crossed through my mind too and I wasn't thinking of ways to scold you or be rude to you. You should give Michelle the benefit of the doubt here.
I love you both and hope things will work out for the two of you.
Lance and I thought the same thing about how that wasn't the safest thing to do a video in the car. Not in a rude or criticizing way, but just as a thought. But it was a good idea to add a video to the blog, it does make for a more personal touch.
It has nothing to do with what she said, it has everything to do with the fact that she can never say anything positive towards me. I can take the opinions and the criticism. I just dont get why she is still pretending to TRY to be my friend and care about me. My whole life, she has ALWAYS found something to pick at with me and she has always pretended to be nice and get along with me but we all know she has never liked me. I am just so sick of holding it in and pretending like it doesn't matter anymore. She has hurt so many of the members of our family. And, half of you don't even know the reasons behind me being so upset, so if I were you, you should all stay out of it.
Gillian, I really do care about you and for years have not understood why you don't care about me. If you choose to be bitter towards me then I'll just let you feel that way. I would love to talk this out with you because I don't have hard feelings towards you. I have confused feelings from all the years you have ignored or been upset with me.
You set yourself up for this. Don't blog about me anymore. And please don't comment on my blog either.
What is really sad here is that I have honestly tried to be nice to you. When I have made comments on your blog, they have been with a sincere heart to compliment you or just comment in general. I like your crafts and how you have decorated your home and since I know that for some reason(s) you don't care about me, I have tried to be nice to you and reach out in hopes that as sisters in laws that we could someday get along. Whatever it was that I have said in the past (which would be at least 2 years ago since I've seen you) I would hope that you could forgive me. This way we can move past this eventually. Like I said I do care about you and I do forgive you for the sadness you caused me by the very hurtful things you said to me when I was in Utah last. Please call me anytime so we can talk.
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