Thursday, July 25, 2013

Alyssa is 14 already

Wow, how time flies. I remember feeling like I'd never have a girl. When I got pregnant for the 5th time I had just planned on a 5th boy. Then after having to have multiple ultrasounds because of a complication I was having, I finally asked the ultrasound techs to put the sex of the baby on an envelope in a file at the hospital and if I had to know then I'd call up and ask. I was set on being surprised at delivery.

 About 5 months into the pregnancy one morning I couldn't take it anymore and I had to know the results of if I was having a boy or a girl. I was actually okay with having another boy. Then the surprise words came from the ultrasound tech. "After reviewing your ultrasound and talking with a co-worker, we are 99.99 % sure your baby is a girl. I couldn't believe my ears and cried with joy. What a cool surprise. I found an old picture of her from when she was 5 on the 4th of July.  She is wearing her shoes on the wrong feet, too cute.  Then some recent pictures of Alyssa.
The Clark Children July 4, 2005


Picture taken this summer.

Alyssa and Scott.

Alyssa riding a roller coaster.


Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Letter from Caleb--July 17, 2013

I didn't get my normal letter on Monday from my son Caleb who is serving as a missionary for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints in Anaheim, California.   However today he wrote me and it was excellent.  He has been busy.

Read on if you want to hear about his awesome week:


Holy Crap.
What a week this has been. I'll start at the beginning.
Tuesday 7/9 I worked in the office. The Irvine Mission has been calling non-stop. They don't have anything set up right and they are struggling. My heart goes out to them, as I could only imagine how difficult it would be to set up an entire office until this last week. Now I know. The Sister who runs the referrals for the Irvine Mission had never used a computer until the MTC. It has been a mess trying to coordinate everything that needs to happen. In addition to this, I have been asked to set up "Network Scanning" from the office's Xerox WorkCentre 4260 to the computers in the office, which I thought would be easy. Turns out, when you still have issues with printers jamming and refusing to print (Hello? Aren't we in 2013?) then you're gonna have a bad time. The churches firewall blocks port 21 on the computers so I can't use FTP. I can't use HTTP either, so it has been a fun week of a crash course in HTTPS and Python. 
Wednesday, 7/10, we got a call from the ZLs saying they needed help. Elder Mungia has bad asthma, and they got their car taken away for a week because of some bad decisions. They needed to help the Sisters with some service in Anaheim 10's area. A10 covers Anaheim Hills. I was asked to go on temporary exchanges with the ZLs, bike with Elder Wardle up to A10, do service, and bike back. It's a really long ride, but I thought it would be fun. Haha. My watch shows our altitude at 320 feet at our apartment. It showed 2220 at service. That was a hard ride that took 50 min there, but 15 back. It was such a sweet ride back. I could not believe how hard it was though. I had to stop and walk for about 1/4 of a mile because I just couldn't breathe. I refused to stop though. I knew that each moment of discomfort now meant amazing bliss later.
So we did that on Wednesday. Also, the bike parts I ordered came in and we started building two bikes, a trek 4500 and an IronHorse. I'll send pictures eventually.
Thursday was District Meeting. President Bowen came and it was ultra spiritual. We had been asked to draw a timeline and plot points from our lives that had led to our conversion. It's called a conversion timeline. I shared an experience where Mom had lost her wallet in our apartment in Idaho, and was searching everywhere for it. I remember how distraught Mom was as she couldn't find it. She cried for hours as she searched and searched. I remember asking Mom if she had prayed, and she asked me to pray with her, so I did. She said a simple prayer asking for help finding her wallet. I remember she stood up and left the apartment. She came back half an hour later, having found it in a dumpster. I remember what it felt like to know that God answered prayers.
Well we all shared an experience, and we were about to progress on, but I realized President hadn't shared anything. So I asked him if he would share something, and he told us about his mission. On his mission, they got $90 a month (he served 40 years ago in Canada) to pay for rent, groceries, utilities, and everything else they needed. He told us about a time he got transferred to a new area. His Zone Leaders had given him the new address, which he had sent to his family. His mom sent the cashiers check for $90 to the address, and Elder Bowen got on a plane and flew to his new area. The check wasn't there. That was all he had for a month and he couldn't find it. After a week, they had no food and he had no idea what to do. His family was poor and couldn't afford to send a new check. He said "One night I knelt down and prayed that I would find the check. I went to bed. I woke up at 5:00 the next morning, woke up my companion and said 'we need to go look for my check,' so we left the apartment at 8:00 and walk from the suburb we were in to this city (it was larger than Salt Lake, but I can't remember the name) and we walked into the city. I had no idea where I was supposed to look. I didn't know what I was looking for. I was just looking. Across a 4 lane highway I saw a music store (about 9:45) with 3 envelopes stuck in the door. I thought that was odd, and I dashed across the four lanes of traffic to the store, and pulled one of the envelopes out of the door. It was my check"
It was so powerful to hear President speak of a time when his prayers were answered. He said he went on his mission without a sure knowledge anything was true, but that he had all of his prayers answered.
In the evening, a special ward council was held with the Yorba Linda 3rd ward and the 5th ward too. President Bowen came and shared things the councils needed to hear. Not a dry eye was left in the room.
After we got home, President Bowen gave me a phone call. That's never good. He told me he was extending the call of District Leader to me. I told him I could do it, and he said "Wonderful. Elder Clark, I am also extending the call of a trainer to you. Will you promise me that you will do your best in these two callings?"
Both of those caught me off guard, but the second one really threw me for a loop. I am still the Office Specialist.
Friday we had a training meeting. The day flew by.
Saturday we had service and a few lessons. The day flew by.
Until the evening. Elder Hyatt (my District Leader) called and told us that I was staying in the area, that I was going to be in a trio with an Elder named Elder Cook, who was transferring out of the Korean program to English. Elder Turner was going to Yorba Linda South with Elder Mungia, who is going home in 5 weeks. Elder Hyatt left the area, and my district would include YL3East and YL3West, as well as the Zone Leaders.
I didn't really expect any of that, and it caught me off guard completely.
Sunday was gone before my eyes.
Monday was transfers. I picked up Elder Cook, and then Surprise! We were given a car. We were told that I needed a car to be able to do the office work, since I would be coordinating between the Anaheim and the Irvine Missions. We got a new (2900 miles) 2013 Red Toyota Corolla, which is a nice car, but I think I am the only Elder who is bummed to not be on bike.
Tuesday I worked in the office at Anaheim. The printers were being punks (we have 8 or 9) and I spent half the day updating drivers. Windows decided to update Monday night, which for some reason broke most of the printer drivers. Great. I printed out a ton of maps when I got the printers up, and started work on updating a bunch of boundaries. We went from 217 missionaries on Monday to 240 on Tuesday with the new ones. We split 10 areas, and are splitting 12 more next transfer. The work is hastening.
I was alerted that we will be getting smartphones in the next few months. On top of that, we will (each?) be issued iPads within the next few months, as we are moving completely digital. We will be allowed to use facebook, skype, and a host of other programs. We will be allowed to teach lessons OVER SKYPE. We do not have further instruction yet, other than we were told to use these tools as creatively as possible.
I picked up Elder Parent and drove home to Placentia. I think the freeway system scared him. He was certainly confused. I took the 22 to the 55 to the 91 and then got off on Santa Ana Canyon Road. It was a lot for him I think. We unpacked his stuff and then set some goals. We asked him how many baptisms we should set a goal for this transfer. He looked at the standards of excellence, saw that the goal for baptismal dates was 5, and said "6". So we are now going to go find a family. We taught 4 lessons yesterday, and 2 today! I have a feeling there are a lot of good things about to happen.
Wednesday (today) We had a training meeting at 9:30-12, then I had a meeting from 1:30 to 2:30. I have not had a chance to eat anything today and am dying. We have dinner with the youngbirds tonight, and I hope it's good. I have to prepare a lesson for tomorrow's district meeting. Apparently they expect me to teach those now :/
I have seen the hand of the Lord in my doings this past week. There are many things I have not included in this letter because they were for my experience, and I don't want to type a mile long letter. I have been incredibly blessed in all that I have done. I have been exhausted, ridiculed, spit upon, lied to, yelled at, harassed, and physically worn down, but I do it because I know it is true. We have a duty to share the gospel to those who will listen. I love what I am doing, even though it is hard and troubling work. I know this is where I need to be right now, and I feel that I have grown more in the past week than I have in my entire mission. There has been so much I needed to learn. I know that I am blessed, and I know the Lord is taking care of my family.
I know my Savior lives. I know He died for me, and that He lives today. I know our Father answers our prayers. He answers mine constantly.
God Bless you all. I know he has blessed me.


Elder Caleb Clark

Tuesday, July 9, 2013

Letter from Caleb--July 8, 2013

Thats amazing Mom! I am so proud of you! It's so cool that you finally got to do something that you have wanted to do. I remember when I was a little younger looking through a bunch of your papers from college, and realizing that yes, you actually did go to college, and that yes, you were actually quite good at what you did. I think it is so cool you are doing it now.


(this part here had stuff that was written for just Mom)

I will be finishing that project Wednesday (we were given special permission to fix this bike as it is for some other Elders who need transportation.
 So lessons learned, Lessons that are not fun to learn.
In other news, I have not yet gotten the package you sent, but should either get it today or tomorrow. I work in the office on Tuesdays from 10:00 till 3:30. Last week wasn't good for much, as no one is in town. I don't get it. Where do people who live in a vacation spot go on vacation? I don't understand these people. The Hanleys sent two of their kids to Iowa. Hahaha, those kids are in for a surprise.
I have some awesome pictures I want to sent here in a few moments. We were allowed to go watch the fireworks on Thursday, but I honestly was not too impressed. After being a part of BoomTown in Iowa, everything else is just... flashes of bright light. The speaker system was terrible too. It's like, you would expect someone to do their research when they buy equipment. Like read a review or two. And then maybe, you know, LEARN HOW TO USE YOUR THOUSAND DOLLAR SPEAKERS. But then I wouldn't have anything to improve on with my business.
So I am going to write to President real quick, then send some pictures. Thursday was my first attempt at photographing fireworks, and it was a lot of fun.
Also, small aside: I don't think I'm going to be here in this area for much longer. I just have a feeling. And a zone leader got a picture of the transfer board. So that's not good.
The AP's came to our zone training on Wednesday, and President is coming and conducting a special Ward Council on Thursday. I think something amazing is about to happen in this ward, and I am going to miss it if I get transferred. Where ever I go will be the place that needs me the most though.


Ok, time to write that letter to Prez and then pictures.

Friday, July 5, 2013

Vacation with the Lokodi's

Months ago Lindsey told me she wanted to do her very first 5K.  I began a search of races in her area, so our family could not only visit her family, but run the 5K with her.

I found the Glow Run in Kansas City, which was only 25 minutes from her home.  So the plan was made to go to the Lokodi home the last weekend of June.  We had so much fun and I didn't include all the pictures because there are so many.  I just wanted to say that I am so glad we took the time to go and I loved every minute we spent there.  Can't wait to go back for another visit.  I don't have pictures of the Glow Run 5K here on this blog, if you want to read about our race please visit this link:  Glow Run 5K post.
Jason and Scott playing one of many games of pool.

I found a toad in the pool on Friday morning, so I called
all the children out to see it.  Here is Alyssa, with her cousins Gabe
and Ava.

Showing Cecily the toad.

We even saw the Google maps car!

Later in the morning we went to Worlds of Fun and Oceans of fun.

Alyssa and Scott on a ride.

Jason and I on a ride.

Lindsey and Alyssa on a coaster.

Alyssa in the pool.

Scott in the pool, not wanting his picture taken.

Jason sitting in the grass roasting hot dogs.

Jason, Sage and Lindsey.


Me, Sage (Jason's cousin) and Jason.  This picture was taken after
our 5K run.
The Lokodi family before church Sunday morning.

4th of July in 2013

This year was MUCH different from years past. Usually we have all the children home, however this year Caleb is on his mission in California, Daniel is working a bunch and hanging out with friends all the time, Jared is in Utah with his Clark Grandparents and Brenden is in Ohio with his Lewis Grandparents. We just have Alyssa and Scott.  Jason and I started the day early with a long bike ride, see post here:  POST.

Then we came home and got the children up and told them we were going to the parade.  After the parade we went to Theisens to get dog food for Abby and some free popcorn of course.  We were invited to my friend's home to celebrate the day, however the children decided they wanted a different day so we didn't go.  So basically we layed around most of the day until around 4 when I thought I should start making some yummy food so we could have a nice dinner.  Instead of a grill out, Scott wanted pizza and Redbox movies.  So I got pizza and redbox movies.

After dinner we waited until it was almost dark and headed to Coralville to enjoy the fireworks, which ended up being weird because someone accidentally let off the finale first.  Whoops.

Here are pictures to enjoy:
Jason and I taking a picture of ourselves in the bright sun on the curb.

Alyssa, Jason and Scott.  It was bright out.  Not sure what
Alyssa was doing.

Horses in the parade, with massively big feet.

The Coralville mini city bus.  Too cute.

Hawkeye tailgate bus that you could rent.

More horses.  Cool.

Awesome car

The Oscar Meyer mobile



My friend Ashley was in the parade for her job, West Bank.

At Theisens eating free popcorn.


Gross stuff on the shelf at Theisens.

More gross stuff, who eats this crap?

I made vanilla cream brownie squares for dessert.

Pizza, grapes, potato salad, deviled eggs.

pickels, chips, red bell pepper strips, fried zucchini, and even some hummus.

Tuesday, July 2, 2013

Letter from Caleb--Monday 7-1-13

Dear Mom,
 
We finally didn't have a slow week this week. We taught 9 lessons! Whoot! Hahaha. I was so mad Wednesday though, because we had this amazing and rock solid day planned out, and as we were biking down to Anaheim, my chain started skipping. What? I just got a completely new drive train, theres no reason it should be skipping. It kept skipping, and I looked down right as the chain broke and fell off the chainring! What?!! I couldn't believe what I saw. There was no way. I had inspected my bike before we left, as I do every day. I take better care of my bike than most do. I coasted to a stop, put my bike against a tree, and ran back to where my chain was, in the middle of La Palma Avenue. I got it and brought it back to my bike. The masterlink had broken and was nowhere to be found, so I decided I'd shorten it by half an inch, re-attach it with my chain tool and then we could continue with our plans until noon, at which point we could ride to a shop and buy a new chain. Within 30 seconds of getting the chain re-attached it broke again, this time in a new place! I couldn't believe it. What the poo. So I look at the chain again. This time to re-attach it I would have to take a full inch off of the chain, which meant I needed to be careful on gear changes and that we wouldn't be able to go about our plans until after I took it to a shop and bought a new chain. I was getting frustrated. Not only should this not be happening to us because we had a great day planned, but it shouldn't be happening at all as this was already a brand new chain. I inspected the chainrings and the cassette, and couldn't find anything that would be causing this. So I inspected my legs, as they are aparently a lot more powerful than I thought, and couldn't find anything wrong with them.
Nothing was adding up. I said a quick prayer and asked for help that I might be able to figure out what to do. My companion was looking at me like "now what?" and then I decided to do the only thing I could. I sat down on the ground (in my nice clothes btdubs) and started taking off another inch of chain to bolt it back together. Out of nowhere, two of the sisters in the ward suddenly appeared behind us. They had seen us stopped and had pulled over to see if there was anything they could do. One of them called her husband, who just happened to be leaving work (Brother Dyer, he owns a company making electronic speed signs) and who had this massive truck (it was a big diesel long-bed). Brother Dyer works almost right next door and was picked us up with our bikes. He took us to a bike shop about 2 miles away, and then insisted on paying for the chain. I couldn't believe it. It was just $20, but I really didn't want to spend any more money for a few months. I am so thankful to him. We got a new chain and installed it, and then were ready to go for our week.
I have no idea why that happened. There are somethings that can't be explained, and this is one of them. Perhaps if we had continued on, we would have been in danger. Perhaps something else would have happened. Who knows.
 
What did the Elders teach about?
 
I have had a lot of fun working in the office. It's a nice divider in our week, and it helps break up the days. I think Turner enjoys being with the Zone Leaders too. It has been really busy splitting everything to get ready for today, but hopefully it was all done well. Tomorrow I will be doing new maps and everything for the mission. Its fun because it requires coding to make the map polygons, and I love coding. It will be sad to delete the Irvine and Newport Stakes though. For the first time, the California Anaheim Mission no longer has any beach.
 
Our companionship is going great! Elder Turner is very misunderstood I think. He has so much to offer if you listen to him.
I love our new apartment. I am fearing I may have to move at this transfer though.
No ants :)
Its hot. Its really, really, hot.
 
You applied to a new job? Why? What is a typical week like for you Mom?
 
I remember weather I think... I miss storms.
 
(private words just to Mom)
 
I can't believe how fast everyone is growing up.
 


Love, Elder Clark